I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul. ~ W.E. Henley

A Vixen's Reads: My Booklist


If anyone would pay attention to my book collection, it would be easy to conclude that I dig World War II genres.  I find that era fascinating, heart wrenching and exciting all at the same time.  My term paper back in high school, if I remember it right, was about the cruelties of that war.  Although I get horrified in reading holocaust tales, my interest and curiosity progresses exponentially.  I even got my self a hard copy of Hitler's Mein Kampf just to pick his brain.  

Not to make this post longer than it would be, I present my minuscule but fairly filling collection written in my ghastly handwriting! 


The Secret Garden - Frances Hudson Burnett
The Problem of Pain - C.S. Lewis
The Reader - Bernhard Schlink
The Prince - Niccolo Machiavelli
The House of the Spirits - Isabel Allende

My French Whore - Gene Wilder
The Art of War - Sun Tzu
One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen
The New Reich - Michael Schmidt

Getting In Touch With Your Inner Bitch - Elizabeth Hilts
The True Stella Awards - Randy Cassingham
Angela's Ashes - Frank McCourt
Les Miserables - Victor Hugo
The Real McCoy - Darin Strauss






The Woman Who Rode Away - D.H. Lawrence
The Devils Advocate - Morris West
Primary Colors - Anonymous
I Love You, Ronnie - The Letters of Ronald Reagan to Nancy Reagan
Mein Kampf - Adolf Hitler

Wall Street - Kenneth Lipper
Katharine Hepburn - Sheridan Morley
A Tale of Two Cities - Charles Dickens
Major Works of William Wadsworth
Rich Dad, Poor Dad - Robert Kiyosaki



Japan Against the World - Russel Braddon
Tao Teh Ching - Lao Tzu
Hamlet - William Shakespeare
Virgin Suicides - Jefferey Eugenides
Cannery Row - John Steinbeck

I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings - Maya Angelou
Frankenstein - Mary Shelley
Rage of Angels - Sidney Sheldon
Gullivers Travels and Other Writings - Jonathan Swift
This Boy's Life - Tobias Wolff






Memories of My Melancholy Whores - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte
The Scarlet Letter - Nathaniel Hawthorne
Veronika Decides to Die - Paolo Coelho
The Aryan Myth - Leon Poliakov





The Five People You Meet in Heaven - Mitch Albom
The Woman Who Had Two Navels - Nick Joaquin
Like The Flowing River - Paolo Coelho
Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte
Chronicles of a Death Foretold - Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Paboritong Libro ni Judas - Bob Ong
The Unbearable Lightness of Being - Milan Kundera
Love in the Time of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
The Poison Wood Bible - Barbara Kingsolver
Always a Reckoning - Jimmy Carter






The Pilot's Wife - Anita Shreve
Satan's Underground - Lauren Stratford
By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept - Paolo Coelho
Moby Dick - Herman Melville
The Politics of Law - David Kairys

The Love Spell - Phyllis Curott
Introduction to Critical Thinking - Bruce Reichenbach
The Purpose Driven Life - Rick Warren


  Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience:  this is the ideal life.  ~Mark Twain







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Officially www.damnvixen.com Baby!


"Feet, what do I need you for when I have wings to fly?" -Frida Kahlo 

Whew! What a feat! I think I deserve a pat on the back for teaching myself how to go about domain registration.    Im talking about almost 8 hours of figuring out how this alien thing works!  It also helps when you have IT friends (ehem! J-A-N-E) whom you can pester 24/7.  But for someone who had just encountered cryptic terms like DNS and CNAME eklavoos, I have all the reason and right to be ecstatic.  I dare anyone to burst my bubble! 

Bleh!
I registered my domain with 1and1 simply because I can afford it and I have a handful of friends who work for this company too.  They do need a verified Paypal account or a credit card as a payment method so thank God I'm friends with the most trusting and thoughtful girl I know!  Sweet I owe you heaps for the big big help!

So what happens next?  I have big plans for MY site of course!  Plans I commit myself to actualize.  Here's a tentative To-Do list:

  1. Blog roll - I've been an avid follower of various blog and news sites that are just so fun yet informative to read.  I'd love to share with you what feeds my brain these days!  Im going to organize it well just you wait and see.  ^^
  2. Book list - Some of you may know that I love shopping for thrift books more than I love digging into a pile of used clothes ( going ukay-ukay).  The list will include a reflection of what I read about.  Note: reflection and not a review because Im no literary critique.  
  3. More beauty reviews - I will let you in on my recent hauls that fuel my "slight" narcissism.  Im keeping this real as in student budget real.
  4. Fashion pitches - Expect wearable styles.  Not too shabby not high street fashion either.  Think: Character and Attitude.
  5. Lookbook - I love Lookbook because it feeds my covetousness!  A girl has got to have an envious bone somewhere inside her to arouse motivation and inspiration.  I know it gets my ass working!
  6. Guest bloggers - I will commission a few people to write here for variety.  I too get sick of myself sometimes so this move hopefully would make you realize Im worth missing. ;)  My brother has shown interest in filling in this role.  Imagine my worry.

This blog has always been my tool for self affirmation.  As I re-read my previous posts I relish in the thought that despite my flaws and failures this is the one thing Im sure to be good at.  When I write I fly, who needs feet?  It is in The ViXeN's LaiR that I have wings to fly!  Rising like a phoenix!

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Honor Among Thieves

Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves

Honor, is that intangible and very valuable perception we have for ourselves that keeps our heads unbowed.  Simply put, it is pride and selfrespect rolled into one.  In the course of our life time, people around us will, once in a while, recognize our achievements as honors.  However, it is knowing that you deserve the recognition that makes it truly an honor.  Because honor, though how very little you may have of it for yourself, can never be taken away from you.  

What do you call a person who gets something not rightfully his? A thief, and he hoards on honor.  He intoxicates himself with the instant gratification he derives from fooling himself to believe that what he have are truly his.  His coveteousness is insatiable that is why in order to continuously feed that want, they operate in numbers, in an intricate conspiracy of deception.  It is a system that works so well until one of them will want some more.

And just like that, the honors a thief treasure most are snatched from his hands, leaving him empty instantaneously.  He finds himself exposed and eventually will either rob his robber back or slump to self distruct.  

We all have price tags.  It may or may not be capable of pecuniary estimation.  The fact is, we can be bought.  When we do decide to trade, stop and think if the price we set for ourselves is the price we truly deserve.  I believe that there is no honor in discounting ourselves, and that we become thieves when we bite off more than we ought to chew.

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